Bullies often bully because they are jealous and envious of others. They may be jealous of your relationships with others, for being popular, your ability to make friends or because you have a loving family. Some reasons why people behave in such an abysmal manner: 1) The Bully Has Been Bullied Before; 2) The Bully Is Lonely; 3) The Bully Has Problems At Home; 4) The Bully Has Low Self-Esteem; 5) The Bully Is Jealous; 6) The Bully Is Part of a Pack; 7) The Bully Has a Big Ego; 8) The Bully Likes To Impress; 9) The Bully Sees You as Being Different; Aggression can either take the forms of violence or emotional abuse. Are bullies saying, “Give me my way or face my behavior”. They usually control others through verbal abuse and insults and by making people feel small. They're very negative, critical people. The threat is always in the background that they're going to break something or call somebody names or hit someone if they are disagreed